So I went to the beach last weekend for a little getaway. It was the first time all year that I went “away” by myself. All the other travels this year were to visit people or with other people, namely family. A little down time was much needed.
I took a couple of books with me (of course!), one of which was tips on simplifying your life. One of the tips was to take a weekend retreat which was rather timely. I have therefore decided to call the beach weekend a “retreat weekend”. I am seriously considering making it yearly thing to do.
Anyway, this is how the weekend went in terms of slowing down and relaxing. I planned to leave around noon on Friday. I managed to get somewhat ahead of the game at work Thursday afternoon leaving only loose ends to tie up Friday morning. The game plan was to work a few hours, finish packing, do a grocery run, eat lunch, and then leave.
It was a great plan except for the work part since one of my managers decided to assign some urgent work to me late Thursday afternoon. I could have left it go until Tuesday but I knew that it would be on my mind for the weekend so I set aside the loose ends and finished up the urgent work. So much for an easy morning….that left rushing through the final packing, a rushed trip to the grocery store followed by a quick lunch. I still managed to make it out the door by 12:30.
After a 2+ hour drive in the maniacal Florida highway traffic, I arrived at the hotel, checked in and went straight out to the beach. And that’s where things got interesting. I realized I couldn’t relax. The “to do” list or “wanna do” list for the weekend was still running through my head. Should I read? Should I go for a walk? Oh yeah, I need to find some shells! No, no, no…just sit down. Wait, I need to stop by the grocery store for some final munchies. Should I go now or wait? What time does the sun set? Which should I do first.
Isn’t that how we live our lives? A constant tape running through our heads of what to do and when to do it?
I did the grocery run. Ate some dinner. And then waited for the sun to set. Oh, and some reading, did some of that, too.
By Sunday night, I knew when the sun would set and knew what I wanted to do. No more to do, it was “just be”. I pulled the chair out to the beach around 6 and just listened to the waves and waited for the sunset show.
When I returned to my room this is what I wrote:
Sitting on the beach tonight for sunset – watching the birds and dolphin.
Just sitting.
Listening to the waves.
Totally present.
Not thinking about anything in particular.
Not thinking about a to do list.
Not thinking about what else I could or should be doing.
Just waiting for sunset.
That is peace.
That is relaxation.
That is being centered.
That was the purpose of this weekend.
And then I came home. What was the first thing I did? Write up a grocery list, think about the sequence of shopping, dentist appointment, laundry, and picking up the dog from the kennel. The spell was broken.
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